He said... She said

There's one thing I like a lot and that's GIST! it just feels good at times knowing everything about everyone or knowing things people don't know and then going to your Friends and saying "I have gist for you!" hmm... feels great most times. sometimes when I gist with my friends I usually ask myself "what is the theme of this discussion?" to be honest its really easy to start a gossip conversation it just takes a "do you know so and so?" or "I haven't heard from so and so" and the rest is taken care of especially if the third party has been eager to complete the sentence or answer the question for you. Gossiping is one thing we women know how to do very well, we don't need to take a course in gossiping neither is it rocket science to know when someone wants to start a gossip. hmm the guys are not innocent in this issue either o! guys can gossip!!! when I hear guys gossiping its just so amusing because they are very creative about it, they even add extra gestures to make it funny and exciting to hear (lool!)

well... its really cool to gist and all but i have come to realise how empty gossip really is. okay someone did this, someone did that, point one: none of your business! its easy for us to say the bad things people have done to others but we cant quite talk about the bad things we have done which in some cases might be worse! that leads us to point two: don't judge! if we look at it we don't gain anything from gossiping just a little lowering of our I.Q and a display of a bit of immaturity and backwardness. if one has a group of friends and all they do is gossip or its gossip that keeps them together then they are all in trouble! a person that gossips with you will surely gossip about you, there's no two ways about it and one who gossips a lot cant be trusted so the golden rule our mothers always tell us is very useful at this point in time " if you have nothing nice to say about someone then don't say anything at all!" or "what you cannot say to someones face don't say behind his/her back! there are a variety of things to talk about one just needs to be a bit more creative. we can use that gossip time to get to know each other better, talk about ourselves and stuff that can also help increase the bond between friends positively so more bonding less gossiping. (big smile!)