No Kele Kele Love

I like this song by Tiwa Savage, I stumbled on another song by her on my friend princess's blog and  I think she's quite talented. It just sums up so many things a girl has to know about getting a decent guy and not a play boy.
It really annoys me when girls settle for less because they have been brainwashed to think all men are the same; in this context all men cheat! NO girls, all men DON'T CHEAT!
Don't let them deceive you, its just another way to make it look like what they're doing is okay, ITS NOT!

I believe all men don't and won't  cheat for the following reasons

• Men are human beings not animals, however most times the indecent ones act solely on instinct, so what are you doing with him? go for guys who reason, guys that think, guys that are smart! in this sense I mean guys that no matter how many naked women they see they are not triggered in any way because they know what they want and are not interested in the physical, that's why he chose you!
• Men have emotions too, I strongly believe if a guy loves you he would not cheat on you no matter how many guys try to prove you wrong. Many guys say that its not just love that can keep a guy from cheating, there might be other factors but it is very possible to say its a strong reason to be faithful because when you love someone your happiness lies in knowing the person better, being with the person and making the person happy. So there won't be time for him to think about how to meet Lara at the parking lot at night.
• Guys who say they love you and still cheat are just highly in-disciplined, that's just it! they lack self control and you dont deserve to be with such a man. If you are dating someone who is in-disciplined be ready to hear all sorts of stories.
• A guy most possibly wont cheat if he is decent, preferably God-fearing and in my opinion that's the best kind of man to date because he loves God and knows God will give him the strength to overcome his weaknesses and temptations. Also he knows better not to put himself in any situation that would make him lose you and that's showing true love
• Most guys who say "I love you" easily don't mean it, that's what I know as KELE KELE love. they tell you because they know that is what you want to hear. Dont fall for any guy that finds it very easy to say those words, in most cases its not true.
• Men like to be loved and appreciated as well. If you have a guy who loves you and shows it please show him love and attention, dont frustrate him to cheat. In my opinion they wont cheat if they are not frustrated.
• Men wont cheat if you dont cheat, simple.

Ladies please understand that you don't have to be with someone if you'd end up with one who does kele kele love. Be patient, be yourself and the right guy will come along.